Yes they were, but they have more HP than their riders! When I have cavalry vs cavalry, I'm assuming that the horses and the worgs are negating one another. This is purely just done to reduce book-keeping.
Alright. I can do incest, but rather it be stepmother but... Can work with actual mom I suppose. For male. [2/3]
For females. I think honestly like 1 2 and 4 most. Could make them OCs without any relation to the series if that works best for you.
I could do OCs for all.
Well the male could be different I guess. For the female I thought of having her be a dominatrix at start but thought it might be funner to work up to that rather than start that way right out of the gate.