Re: Bondage Corner
Different levels for everyone. As is the case with everything, it's part psychological, it's part physical, and due to individual variances, the level of each of those parts is different for everyone. If you're asking generally, I could answer with how physically, the sensation of it increases the feeling of pleasure more than just rubbing your naughty bits. In terms of psychology, it's based a lot to your personality, as well as sharing vulnerability with someone. It's a trust issue for those who view sex as a physical action, taking it to deeper levels than those practitioners of normal intercourse. Those who are naturally passive people will tend to find themselves flock to someone of a more forward nature, turning their own passiveness to submissiveness in the hands of someone who turns aggression into sado-dominance.
If you're asking specifically, I can only tell you that I personally grew up as a child with ridiculous ideals, ingrained chivalry, and a bit of isolation. So I tend to be independent to a fault, but continuing past that is my tendency to place the women around me on pedestals, granting them the benefit of the doubt in troubled situations and giving them the reins to everything else in my life. The isolation kicks in by me not caring what way they take me or what they do, cuz when my control comes back to me, I can always guide myself back to something positive. That's the psychological, and in terms of physical, I would end up injured a lot as a child, but never hurt. I was skinny and extremely limber, had a high tolerance for pain, fast metabolism, and healed at speeds rivaling comic book characters. Basically, I was invincible, even surviving some incidents where, medically, the odds were against me, without so much as an "ow." For this reason, I found it hard to feel vulnerable in the face of anything and would go out of my way to try and put myself in situations of potential danger/pain/discomfort. Because of these, I lean towards giving women complete control over me and letting them put me into whatever they want because it would never affect me in a major way and I'd find a bit of a thrill to them trying to do anything that would 'scare' or 'intimidate' me. Doesn't even have to be sex, sometimes it can be me just letting a friend of mine drive my car, despite me being in it with them. I'm a sufficient driver and most of my friends are terrible, but I'm not scared that anything major will ever happen and if it does, I have the mindset that I'll just walk away from it like I always do.
*if you wish, I could be more specific with my first paragraph on why people generally enjoy it. Describing why it's completely physical or completely psychological to different people.
