Re: Confessions
Always trim, never let it grow more than half an inch. Bald, though? That's weird. At least groom yourself for your woman. Or man, whatever you're into. Taking it all the way, though, that's something you'll have to get her preference on.
Also, whether a woman counts girth more than length or vice versa depends on the woman. Maybe the majority prefer one or the other, but meh, who cares about that if you're with one of the minority? Also, seriously, who gives a damn how long or big you are? It's not the size, it's how you use it. So even if you're below average (which is closer to 5.5 than 6 btw, this taken from other studies not just the one posted here), you have nothing to worry about as long as you can make her come. And you can't do that unless you have the confidence that you can. Trust me when I say this - I can only be described as average, but sex with my woman is awesome because we've been together a long time and we know how to please each other. It also helps that I actually get turned on more by giving her pleasure than vice versa... although ironically sometimes that's a hindrance because if I'm doing really good and she's being really loud, I'll have to really concentrate on not being... premature =p
By the way, I'm bent too. Try lying her down on her opposite side (if you're bent to the left have her on her right side) so you can hit her G-spot with zero effort. Makes for some really intense orgasms. I prefer to think that being bent is just Darwin at work - men who please their woman make more babies =D So if you think being bent is a flaw, think the opposite.
One more thing. Which gender do all of you think is easier to get off (while we're on the topic)? I've heard both answers, and I'm curious as to what the results will be from here.