It's a game centered around debuffs, so that makes it tricky.
If the debuffs are too strong or are hard to get rid of, the game becomes a chore if you ever get hit.
If the debuffs are weak or easy to remove, then pretty much all the sex becomes optional.
I don't think there's a perfect solution here, but I know I prefer to play a game that doesn't make me frustrated, and especially doesn't make the game unwinnable if I ever dare to see the porn.
On that note, it sounds like the recent "
Primeval Planet: Angimanation" is the polar opposite while still being a similar style of gameplay.