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I love Sly enough that I would push away all hatred, and bitterness, and vileness to spend moments with her. I love her enough that I would sacrifice myself if it meant that she got to have even a few more moment's of peace. That is an emotion so much stronger than hate, and I pity those who don't know what it feels like because they let their anger and hatred putrefy their souls.
Come on, every show shows that love is greater then hate even some hentais.
You live your life by what TV tells you?
I love Sly enough that I would push away all hatred, and bitterness, and vileness to spend moments with her. I love her enough that I would sacrifice myself if it meant that she got to have even a few more moment's of peace. That is an emotion so much stronger than hate, and I pity those who don't know what it feels like because they let their anger and hatred putrefy their souls.
sacrificing yourself would make her sad though... so i don't really think you can win with that tactic.
True, but I kind of understand Sin's point. If someone is not happy with you, or what you're doing... if you love them the best thing to do is to let them go... and be happy elsewhere.
I did that for Stephen... not this past summer but the summer before. I admit part of my reasoning was more than a little selfish too. But i knew he wasn't happy, and i thought I knew that someone else could give me more attention than he was giving me (I know, I'm a moron) So we separated for two months... Worse two months of my life. I think it was at that point that i realized i truly loved him, and could let him go later on down the road if it turns out that we don't work well together and that he isn't happy with me.
I can see that, however the only thing that he IS restricted on is actually dating, or being sexual at all with another girl physically because I expect loyalty, like you mentioned. I've never restricted flirting, and I've never restricted him doing things online because I know he loves me. If i don't feel comfortable with something I'll let him know but I don't think I've out and out restricted him from anything... Do I make any sense? Though with my paranoia I wish he wouldn't do the stuff online that he does, but it's not my life, it's his, and those people mean nothing.To offer an alternate viewpoint: I love being single. I enjoy being able to do precisely what i want in exactly the way I like. If I feel like getting a Mr. T mohawk tomorrow I don't need permission. If I see a girl I like I can flirt to my heart's content, without feeling disloyal. I understand people giving up a few freedoms, or sacrificing of themselves in some way for the ones they love. It's just not me.
I can see that, however the only thing that he IS restricted on is actually dating, or being sexual at all with another girl physically because I expect loyalty, like you mentioned. I've never restricted flirting, and I've never restricted him doing things online because I know he loves me. If i don't feel comfortable with something I'll let him know but I don't think I've out and out restricted him from anything... Do I make any sense? Though with my paranoia I wish he wouldn't do the stuff online that he does, but it's not my life, it's his, and those people mean nothing.
You DO make sense, and you're a rather understanding and lenient partner from what I can tell. That being said, if I was with a woman, committed to her, and I flirted with another girl, it wouldn't be my woman who'd have the strongest objection. The feelings of disloyalty that would plague me wouldn't stem from my woman being upset with me, so much as it would from my own code of ethics and honor. I'd be the reason that I'd feel bad about flirting outside of a commitment.
Aaaah. I see, and i can understand that too.
I don't think he flirts with anyone, because by his own admission he... nevermind. Not my place to say on a public forum. Lets just say he has self esteem issues. I was the one that asked him out after all.
Well he's got hisself a good woman now, I'm sure any self-esteem issues he's got are gonna get ironed out pretty well, being your man and all.![]()
Indeed, hope is correct.
To keep this on track....
I love having every Sunday come around so I can see my daughter.
I LOVE DRINKING WITH HOPE