This is what really bothers me. I really would like to have someone who has transitioned for a partner, but I'd feel dirty for actively seeking them out exclusively. I honestly think I would be very comfortable having a transitioned person as a partner both intellectually and physically.I feel weird thinking about approaching the subject, but I feel like I'd have a hard time explaining to a prospective partner that I was into what they got going on without making it sound like I'm into them BECAUSE of it, and wouldn't want to make it feel like objectification, that they're just a representative of a fetish or something, but I think that's mostly difficult because I'm imagining being up for it without a specific person in mind, so it HAS to be the focus, instead of their personage.
Except what has been happening is cis people have been ejected and followed because they don't fit the standard of what someone thinks a woman should look likePersonally Toxic, I agree with you, but the problem is there will always be those who will ruin a good thing for everyone. The floodgates WILL open when transgender people start using the bathroom of their gender identity, because there will be some asshole who uses an excuse to peep on members of the opposite sex or set up cameras or some shit, and they will lie and say they're entitled to use the bathroom of the opposite sex and claim to be transgender for their own nefarious purposes. People like that grind my gears, and I want to toss them into said gears and watch them get mutilated and crushed between them.
So a giant, beefy person with biker tats and a beard should walk into the women's restroom because they lack a tube of spongy meat between their legs? Eh.Wouldn't the easy solution be to have a third bathroom? Then again I guess we'd need x types of bathrooms .
Really don't see why this should be a problem though. It's not a guessing game, or a social statement, there is a room for people with one set of equipment and a different one for the others, use the room you have the equipment for!
How do I love thee, let me count the ways.So a giant, beefy person with biker tats and a beard should walk into the women's restroom because they lack a tube of spongy meat between their legs? Eh.
I mean, sure, one might make a slippery slope argument that this opens up the question for how non-binary people should be treated with regards to toilet access, but I'm sure we'll manage that too.
Honestly, it's silly how scared people are of transgender folks suddenly turning into predators once they get the chance to enter the restroom of the gender they identify with. And no one seems to even vaguely worry about the cisgender predators currently existing in public bathrooms because... reasons?
Apologies for ending the civility, but wow, that's not a good point at all. Based on the idea that most people watch porn, despite that not being all people, or having ever seen a single set of genitalia in any circumstance, everyone should have no problem seeing anyone naked.I guess people are so closed minded that they act like they've never seen a penis or vagina, despite the fact most watched porn. >.>
You're doing it wrong, you're supposed to ignore Toxics point and use an ad hominem here.You're right maybe that was a poor choice of words,
You mean like this?You're doing it wrong, you're supposed to ignore Toxics point and use an ad hominem here.
To me it's very clear-cut, as alot of things are that others feel shouldn't be, it's not really anything to do with predators and honestly I don't care where you go as long as you're not talking in the bathroom (seriously, what's with this? It's a room to release waste in, not have a goddamn conversation, and FUCK if they didn't come in with you don't try to start up a conversation with the person in the next stall!). I use the handicapped one whenever I get the chance.So a giant, beefy person with biker tats and a beard should walk into the women's restroom because they lack a tube of spongy meat between their legs? Eh.
I mean, sure, one might make a slippery slope argument that this opens up the question for how non-binary people should be treated with regards to toilet access, but I'm sure we'll manage that too.
Honestly, it's silly how scared people are of transgender folks suddenly turning into predators once they get the chance to enter the restroom of the gender they identify with. And no one seems to even vaguely worry about the cisgender predators currently existing in public bathrooms because... reasons?
Yeah your right, I remember one time i had to clean the women's restroom it had a lot of bloody pads, tampons on the toilet and some strange yellow mucus like texture on the rim of the toilet.As someone who worked in the service industry and had to clean restrooms I say that the women's room was usually worse.
The female bathrooms have that and also blood and baby diapersBut the women's bathroom is so clean and nice, most men bathrooms have graffiti and urine on the floor. So don't blame a guy for wanting to use the girl's bathroom.