No, it's not that I didn't misinterpret your point, it's that the notion that implies that people telling others to shut up is in itself, is what the forum can be used for. That kind of liberty is genuine of forums and unless it's super authoritarian in here, being as humble or crude is within the boundaries of discussions as long as we aren't being told it's kindergarten here. There are no rules that state otherwise, unless you do one of the things that are explicitly stated in the rules we were given. As far as the conversations that have been had here go, everyone has been keeping it as marginal as it can be when it comes to snide and offensive comments and it's up to other party to take offense on a personal level. Though, you'll be in a happier place if you can power on through such comments and continue your deliberations till you reach a consensus as arguing on the internet will give you as much peace of mind as running your butt through a cheese grater. That and starting a conversation on morals will inevitably get you set on fire, as I have said.
Let it be said that while I was the most neutral in replying to you, I have received what seems like your ire with the reputation mark. I'm disappointed, but that to is what the forum is for.