Lol, that male character is Gatsu from Berserk.
If you haven't read that, or watched the anime. Watch it, it's one of my favorites. An excellent read btw. Start from the beginning. Do NOT skip ahead.
As for the raping thing, the monsters that don't swing that way will probably ignore his corpse, the female adventurers don't rape Reim after all. If not, well, the character was a homophobe for a reason, the setting is unbelievely dark/harsh/unpleasant and his childhood would be just about as bad as it gets. Extra negative points for realism.
Note, story starts flashed forward to dark fantasy, but the real goods of the story is when it starts at his childhood as a medevil non fantastic setting.