Thanks, Darmy. I mean, seriously? I almost never whine or bitch about anything, and the one time I try to vent, she refuses it.
I'm try not to do the whole shoulder thing for people.
When I was 16, I helped out a suicidal girl. She clung to me, and we ended up in a relationship basically because I was too worried to turn her down. After a bit, I got used to the idea of being in a relationship. And then boom.
Her self esteem had recovered enough that she decided she was too good for me.
So yeah, I tend not to do it so much after that.
Its ok man. I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years, trying my VERY best to keep making things work. We were both persistent, and we tried REALLY hard. But the fucking world was aginst us man, and we couldnt hold it up much longer. I still want her back to this day, i think its hurt me pretty badly emotionally and mentally to the point im unstable.
*officially freaking* Uh, my fiancee is stuck on the other side of the country right now, so we have a long distance relationship. thanks...![]()
I enjoy helping people. It's just who I am. If someone has a problem and they come to me with it, I try to help them out as best as I can.
I need to stop doing that shit.
All it ever does is bite me in the ass. I've got, like, TWO MOTHER-FUCKIN' PEOPLE that actually LISTEN to my advice. Everybody else? Goes something like this:
->Person: Hey, I've got a problem, let me explain it.
*explains*
->Me: Huh, well that sucks. Here's what I think.
*gives thoughts/advice*
->Person: Okay!
*next day*
->Person: Yeah, I totally disregarded everything you said and took none of your advice.
->Me: WAT =.=
Also, I've had it move to this next bit a couple of times:
->Person: So yeah, I know I completely disregarded your advice and did nothing that you said to do, but I'm still blaming you for the shitty way things turned out.
->Me: ..... Fuck off.
->Person: WHAT?!? IT'S YOUR FAULT, DON'T TALK LIKE THAT TO ME.
->Me: ..... yeah, goodbye.
*never talks to them again*
...karma...relationship advice bites me in the ass once again. *facepalm* Im sorry luppikun, dont get discouraged man, im sure you'll have much better luck.
Dude, it's fine. We'll be ok. I know we will. I have faith.
Yeah, I seriously am trying to find something that we don't have in common. I'm REALLY starting to get confused.
*ahem* I do believe I said DIFFERENCE.
I love Haruhi and I play any Tales game I can find. -_-
*officially freaking* Uh, my fiancee is stuck on the other side of the country right now, so we have a long distance relationship. thanks...![]()