No internet or no sex?
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Re: No internet or no sex?
I've been fine not having sex for a while. Internet I can avoid but will always end up coming back to.
I've been fine not having sex for a while. Internet I can avoid but will always end up coming back to.
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Erg... Uhg.... AHHHHHHHHHH!!!
*Brain explodes from trying to make the decision*
FATALITY!!!
Erg... Uhg.... AHHHHHHHHHH!!!
*Brain explodes from trying to make the decision*
FATALITY!!!
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Re: No internet or no sex?
This still leaves the option of outercourse and even, should you be so inclined, fapping.
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Sex is not hard to get most of the time, and I'm not saying this on my own behalf to be an egotistical asshole. But most people who don't get it decide not to or maybe just aren't thinking up to their natural skills or outside the box.
I'd almost be offended by that if it applied to me more, but it's kinda pushing it.
Sex is not hard to get most of the time, and I'm not saying this on my own behalf to be an egotistical asshole. But most people who don't get it decide not to or maybe just aren't thinking up to their natural skills or outside the box.
I'd almost be offended by that if it applied to me more, but it's kinda pushing it.
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your forgetting the largest hurdle for people here is most likely their natural shyness and unwillingness to meet new people. its not hard to get if you have the right mindset and personality, but if you have trouble even going outside things can be a bit harder.
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So that would be chalked up under my aren't thinking towards their natural skills point. Plus, I didn't mean just one night stands and love interests, sex can still be bought or prodded out of people.
And to think even more outside the box, there is the whole taking it by force thing. I never said the means had to be legitimate, I just said it's entirely possible
So that would be chalked up under my aren't thinking towards their natural skills point. Plus, I didn't mean just one night stands and love interests, sex can still be bought or prodded out of people.
And to think even more outside the box, there is the whole taking it by force thing. I never said the means had to be legitimate, I just said it's entirely possible
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my point is though your saying its not hard for a comatose man to walk, sure he physically can but there are other problems there. i am of course assume everything except rape, these people might not have any friends that give out pity fucks, no girl (obviously if they have this problem) and no money for prostitutes.
thinking towards your natural attributes will help pick up a girl or date a girl, but getting to the girl is the largest problem here.
my point is though your saying its not hard for a comatose man to walk, sure he physically can but there are other problems there. i am of course assume everything except rape, these people might not have any friends that give out pity fucks, no girl (obviously if they have this problem) and no money for prostitutes.
thinking towards your natural attributes will help pick up a girl or date a girl, but getting to the girl is the largest problem here.
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Getting to the girl (approach anxiety) still fits under the natural skills thing, it's the larger part of picking up girls. I won't argue that people have varying degrees of trouble with it to almost debilitating points, but the problem still remains psychological and most everyone has the capability to overcome it, be it with help or not.
Getting to the girl (approach anxiety) still fits under the natural skills thing, it's the larger part of picking up girls. I won't argue that people have varying degrees of trouble with it to almost debilitating points, but the problem still remains psychological and most everyone has the capability to overcome it, be it with help or not.
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getting to the girl as in, getting up, leaving the house, going to a club / bar / where ever then approaching the girl?
anyway your saying that its not easy for everyone then? all they have to do is just change who they are?
getting to the girl as in, getting up, leaving the house, going to a club / bar / where ever then approaching the girl?
anyway your saying that its not easy for everyone then? all they have to do is just change who they are?
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You went from introverted to agoraphobia. I'm having difficult finding out where you're talking about your everyday people, or deep-rooted clinical psychological problems.
Its self over-comable, and it's not changing their self, it's simplicity like changing a hobby, albeit an addictive one.
You went from introverted to agoraphobia. I'm having difficult finding out where you're talking about your everyday people, or deep-rooted clinical psychological problems.
Its self over-comable, and it's not changing their self, it's simplicity like changing a hobby, albeit an addictive one.
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I've seen women at lans. I've never been to a club or bar either.
As a matter of fact, up to a while ago. I was extremely introverted. I was somewhat outgoing through grade school, but as evident in the suicide story, I was ever the scientist. Eventually it became so bad I couldn't talk to anyone new for any reason, female or not. Without anyone's help or suggestions, I decided it was bad and had to do something about it. Sure, it seemed kinda creeperish but I took it in steps, finding reasons to be able to talk to someone, trying to justify it in my head. I would watch for the person who dropped something while walking and would quickly go out of my way to pick it up, just to be able to say "Here, you dropped this." I'm up to the point where I can say embarrassing things in a group just to get other people to look at us and stuff like that, but you can still notice when you talk to me that I talk extremely fast and at a low tone and volume. But I did get over it and I don't consider it at all a change to my personality.
*edit* now this is just a single case and everyone's different, but it is a natural and evolved process that everyone has that allows them to approach people and anything else is simply obstacles tacked on. There's always a bit of lack of confidence involved in the avoidance of overcoming the things they realize they need to get over, it just seemed like the first statement almost made out the people of this forum to be pathetic, which I don't think they are.
I've seen women at lans. I've never been to a club or bar either.
As a matter of fact, up to a while ago. I was extremely introverted. I was somewhat outgoing through grade school, but as evident in the suicide story, I was ever the scientist. Eventually it became so bad I couldn't talk to anyone new for any reason, female or not. Without anyone's help or suggestions, I decided it was bad and had to do something about it. Sure, it seemed kinda creeperish but I took it in steps, finding reasons to be able to talk to someone, trying to justify it in my head. I would watch for the person who dropped something while walking and would quickly go out of my way to pick it up, just to be able to say "Here, you dropped this." I'm up to the point where I can say embarrassing things in a group just to get other people to look at us and stuff like that, but you can still notice when you talk to me that I talk extremely fast and at a low tone and volume. But I did get over it and I don't consider it at all a change to my personality.
*edit* now this is just a single case and everyone's different, but it is a natural and evolved process that everyone has that allows them to approach people and anything else is simply obstacles tacked on. There's always a bit of lack of confidence involved in the avoidance of overcoming the things they realize they need to get over, it just seemed like the first statement almost made out the people of this forum to be pathetic, which I don't think they are.
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