Re: No internet or no sex?
I've seen women at lans. I've never been to a club or bar either.
As a matter of fact, up to a while ago. I was extremely introverted. I was somewhat outgoing through grade school, but as evident in the suicide story, I was ever the scientist. Eventually it became so bad I couldn't talk to anyone new for any reason, female or not. Without anyone's help or suggestions, I decided it was bad and had to do something about it. Sure, it seemed kinda creeperish but I took it in steps, finding reasons to be able to talk to someone, trying to justify it in my head. I would watch for the person who dropped something while walking and would quickly go out of my way to pick it up, just to be able to say "Here, you dropped this." I'm up to the point where I can say embarrassing things in a group just to get other people to look at us and stuff like that, but you can still notice when you talk to me that I talk extremely fast and at a low tone and volume. But I did get over it and I don't consider it at all a change to my personality.
*edit* now this is just a single case and everyone's different, but it is a natural and evolved process that everyone has that allows them to approach people and anything else is simply obstacles tacked on. There's always a bit of lack of confidence involved in the avoidance of overcoming the things they realize they need to get over, it just seemed like the first statement almost made out the people of this forum to be pathetic, which I don't think they are.